Modern Etiquette for Guests Who Want to Keep the Vibe Right
Attending a wedding soon? These wedding guest etiquette tips are essential. From outfit choices to social media do’s and don’ts, here’s how to be a respectful, well-loved guest—especially when celebrating at a timeless venue like The Historic Alfred I. duPont Building. We’ve seen it all at The Historic Alfred I. duPont Building, and these wedding guest etiquette tips are based on real-life experiences.
When it comes to upscale celebrations, wedding guest etiquette tips are key to keeping things classy and conflict-free.
Here are 10 things you should never do at a wedding:
1. Don’t Wear White (Unless You’re Told To)
White is reserved for the couple—period. Unless the dress code specifically calls for it, go for something festive, fun, and guest-appropriate.
2. Don’t Show Up Late
Being fashionably late doesn’t fly at weddings. Plan to arrive 20-30 minutes early so you’re seated and settled before the ceremony starts.
3. Don’t Post Before the Couple Does
If it’s a social media-friendly wedding, wait until the couple shares something before you flood your feed. Let them have their moment first.
4. Don’t Bring a Plus-One Who’s Not Invited
If your invite doesn’t say “+1,” don’t assume. Guest lists are curated for a reason, especially at high-end venues with limited space.
5. Don’t Be That Guest at the Open Bar
Enjoy the celebration, but pace yourself. Overindulging leads to awkward moments and blurry memories—for everyone.
6. Don’t Interrupt the Photographer
Trust the pros. Sneaking in front of the photographer for your shot disrupts the flow—and could ruin a perfect frame.
7. Don’t Ignore the Dress Code
Wearing sneakers to a black-tie affair? Not cool. Respect the vibe and location—especially if the wedding is in a timeless, elegant venue like ours.
8. Don’t Overshadow the Couple
This isn’t the time for public proposals, surprise announcements, or attention-grabbing outfits. Let the couple shine.
9. Don’t Forget to RSVP (and Then Bail Last-Minute)
Weddings take time and money to plan. No-shows hurt more than you think. If something unavoidable comes up, give as much notice as possible.
10. Don’t Disrespect the Venue
Historic venues like The Alfred I. duPont Building are one-of-a-kind. Follow the rules, be kind to the staff, and treat the space with care—it’s part of what makes the night magical.
Final Thoughts:
Weddings are a celebration of love and connection. With a little courtesy and common sense, you’ll help make the day just as special for the couple as it is for you.If you’re unsure about wedding behavior, follow these wedding guest etiquette tips to stay in good graces.
Planning your own timeless celebration in the heart of Miami? Let The Historic Alfred I. duPont Building set the stage. Discover the elegance, charm, and energy that make every event unforgettable.
You can also learn more from The Knot’s wedding guest etiquette guide.
